Find lasting freedom - Quit pornography for life

I’ve been using Relay for almost 6 months now, and to me, Relay is more than just an app. It feels like a real community of people who understand my struggle, with a team behind it that genuinely cares about my recovery journey. I’ve battled unwanted addiction for 20 years. I’ve considered traditional therapy, but it’s just not in my budget. Thanks to Relay, I’ve gone from daily struggles to now a 40-day streak—it feels amazing!

This app has been HUGE in my recovery journey. It helped me find community, hope, and the resources I needed to finally find healing from my addiction. If you are struggling with pornography and want help, please, please, please give Relay a chance. It has changed my life.

For months I’d been going at this alone and relying on my own trial and error for recovery or solutions from my therapist with limited results. With Relay and the live meetings you’re getting solutions and ideas that are based on the collective knowledge and experience of many. It’s real people who are working through the exact same thing as you, and you get to use all the pitfalls and successes they’ve experienced and apply it to your recovery. In learning we teach and in teaching we learn… that’s what Relay’s live sessions provide; a real way to connect, learn, and teach. That’s what made just the two live meetings I’ve attended more valuable than all the individual therapy sessions I’ve had in the last 7 months of my recovery journey combined.

You sent me this email over a month ago, when I was two weeks into the journey with Relay. It was also my birthday. As of this week, I've gone seven weeks sober. It's been really tough, and I don't think I could have done it without the Relay app and the community. The difference it's made to my life—especially my relationship with my wife—has been incredible. Life changing. I've got a lot more work ahead, but I've got a foundation to build from. Thank you for what you've developed with Relay. I'm actually a psychologist that works in tech interventions, and your platform design is outstanding. This app and support is sorely needed for our times. I suspect there are many other men feeling helpless, alone, and full of shame. I'll do what I can to promote and support your work and our community. Thank you again, Iain

Relay honestly feels like the piece that was missing from my recovery. I've made it to two weeks a couple times before, maybe 3 or 4? But this by far the easiest it's ever been. I've been putting a lot of work into myself the past couple months, and I feel like it's finally starting to pay off. Hochman's lessons are great and knowing I have a team I can always fall back on, at any time, has been a game changer. Seeing both their successes and setbacks is motivating to keep trucking. Loved the live session I showed up to as well! This sounds like review fluff but seriously, I've been impressed and am grateful to have found Relay. Maybe the most important part of the app is how it doesn't overfocus on the streak. Like, I didn't realize I was about to hit 2 weeks until last night. The streak of sobriety is genuinely the starting point and almost an afterthought, because if you keep up your self-care and stay vigilant about urges, it'll come naturally. Keep on doing your thing, because you're helping men become better, more aware, more honest people. And god knows that's what the world needs right now. Take it easy,

This app has been incredible for my progress with addiction. The price seemed a lot to me but it's worth it. The group features and helpful lessons have helped me so much to make real change and find hope in my struggles. I've tried lots of apps before but nothing has worked as well as Relay. If you're looking for a way out of any kind of addiction, give Relay a try.

I randomly came across this app a few months ago and downloaded it in hopes that I could finally end my porn addiction. I had tried to stop watching porn a million times it felt like, but I kept relapsing and relapsing. Now, I've been clean for over 10 weeks. I feel so proud of myself. I 100% recommend this app to anyone trying to stop watching porn. It will help you be accountable for your porn usage and to be surrounded by people who understand the struggle and are also fighting.

I'm not always great at sharing my wins, but as September ends tomorrow I want to share one little data point I'm proud of: In January, I had 3 sober days. I tracked my addiction in my planner. I hated myself for it. In September, I've had only 3 days of acting out. It's the complete inverse of where I was in that dark time 9 months ago. Thank you everyone for sharing your journeys here. I was fighting alone and failing, but now it feels like I've got the whole damn Avengers team at my side thanks to this community and app.